Since it’s quite different putting up a profile on a site dedicated to Trans-folks (not having to explain things like on other sites…. I thought I’d give this a re-write.
The short version is that I am a bisexual full time trans-woman, (18 months HRT) and like anyone else…. I am looking for a partner who really gets me, as well as friends who are actually close enough to meet in person. (sorry, have enough pen pals.) I hate to use the term “passable” but for the most part I don’t attract too much attention.. other than the fact that I am 6’1” in bare feet, and tower above most people when wearing heels… and oh, how I love heels.
I have been on a few Trans oriented sites in the past, and while I hate to put disclaimers, I think it’s only fair to be upfront. I am a Trans-woman, and while I may have a few fetishes of my own (if you ask politely, I may tell you ;)….being Transgender NOT a fetish. I’m not into chasers, not a sissy, a she-male, nor a chick with a dick. I don’t want to be your unicorn, and I don’t want to share “sexy gurl time”. I am not a prude ( I have kinks), and I place no judgements on how others feel about their sexuality or identity. That is simply not my goal, I have no interest in conversing about such things, or sharing photos beyond what is already here with people I do not know personally.
That being said, I’m pretty friendly and down to earth. As a child I held conversations with adults, and through my life, I have been around many different kinds of people, and never had issue talking with elderly folks, or Hells Angeles. I would say that I am at my best when I have someone to play off of (that would be you). I do tend to wave my hands around like a crazy person when discussing things I am passionate about. At some point, I would like to have the time and the means (I used to, but things change during transition) to get back to traveling. I miss it terribly. Anyone who could expose me to something new… travel or otherwise… would earn so many extra points.
I have never fit into the norm growing up. I have so many hobbies and interests, and on any day could be building something, fixing something, or designing something. I never thought myself a geek growing up, but have learned to embrace my inner geek about cars, pop culture, sci-fi, history.. and a few other things. I’ll try pretty much anything once, as long as it’s not simply suicidal.
I traveled a lot as a kid with my mother, and fixed things and rode motorbikes with my father, just a few miles from where I now live. (I have a natural mechanical ability). I always swore up and down that I would never move out to the desert, but sometimes Family matters take precedent. I Studied film/theatre in school, and worked in Aerospace for 14 years. My goals in life are still pending, getting a personal business off the ground, going back to school for Paralegal, and the thought that somehow… I can make a difference. If my coming out as trans to old friends has changed the perception of even one person… it’s a step in the right direction.
Being trans, I feel like I missed out on a lot of experiences. Perhaps you could help me fill those missing moments?