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TG (50) looking for TG Phelan, California, United States

Since it’s quite different putting up a profile on a site dedicated to Trans-folks (not having to explain things like on other sites…. I thought I’d give this a re-write.
The short version is that I am a bisexual full time trans-woman, (18 months HRT) and like anyone else…. I am looking for a partner who really gets me, as well as friends who are actually close enough to meet in person. (sorry, have enough pen pals.) I hate to use the term “passable” but for the most part I don’t attract too much attention.. other than the fact that I am 6’1” in bare feet, and tower above most people when wearing heels… and oh, how I love heels.

I have been on a few Trans oriented sites in the past, and while I hate to put disclaimers, I think it’s only fair to be upfront. I am a Trans-woman, and while I may have a few fetishes of my own (if you ask politely, I may tell you ;)….being Transgender NOT a fetish. I’m not into chasers, not a sissy, a she-male, nor a chick with a dick. I don’t want to be your unicorn, and I don’t want to share “sexy gurl time”. I am not a prude ( I have kinks), and I place no judgements on how others feel about their sexuality or identity. That is simply not my goal, I have no interest in conversing about such things, or sharing photos beyond what is already here with people I do not know personally.

That being said, I’m pretty friendly and down to earth. As a child I held conversations with adults, and through my life, I have been around many different kinds of people, and never had issue talking with elderly folks, or Hells Angeles. I would say that I am at my best when I have someone to play off of (that would be you). I do tend to wave my hands around like a crazy person when discussing things I am passionate about. At some point, I would like to have the time and the means (I used to, but things change during transition) to get back to traveling. I miss it terribly. Anyone who could expose me to something new… travel or otherwise… would earn so many extra points.

I have never fit into the norm growing up. I have so many hobbies and interests, and on any day could be building something, fixing something, or designing something. I never thought myself a geek growing up, but have learned to embrace my inner geek about cars, pop culture, sci-fi, history.. and a few other things. I’ll try pretty much anything once, as long as it’s not simply suicidal.
I traveled a lot as a kid with my mother, and fixed things and rode motorbikes with my father, just a few miles from where I now live. (I have a natural mechanical ability). I always swore up and down that I would never move out to the desert, but sometimes Family matters take precedent. I Studied film/theatre in school, and worked in Aerospace for 14 years. My goals in life are still pending, getting a personal business off the ground, going back to school for Paralegal, and the thought that somehow… I can make a difference. If my coming out as trans to old friends has changed the perception of even one person… it’s a step in the right direction.

Being trans, I feel like I missed out on a lot of experiences. Perhaps you could help me fill those missing moments?

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TS/TG Details

I amPre-op trans woman
Pass as femaleI don't stand out
I go outAnywhere
I preferBottom / Versatile

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height185 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureLegs
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness