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only the good die young

As a transwoman who began her transition later in life, I think it was more a lot more difficult for me. The typical male maturation of my body has taken it's toil on my facial bone structure, and my fat redistribution hasn't given me the curves I longed for so many years. That, plus the fact that in 1995, I was diagnosed with full-blown AIDS and given three to five years to live. Unfortunately, when I came to San Francisco in 2010, I had no idea by 2012 I would be diagnosed with a rare and very painful bone disease called avascular necrosis(AVN) which has led to shoulder surgery and hip surgery where the surgeon would have to remove Three and a inches from my right femur which is why I am in a wheelchair. While I was in hospital I began my transition. After my two and a half years at the skilled nursing facility here in San Francisco, Laguna Honda, I moved into my own place and have been doing well, except for breaking my right femur and getting three rods put in it. Luckily it didn't affect my breast surgery. If you'd like to know more about me, IM me. Bye-bye boys!!!!!

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildSlender
Height165 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairShaved
Best featureLegs
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionHandicapped
Bra size36 / 80
Cup sizeC
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Annual incomeSeeking support
Job TitleN/A

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA man who accepts my disabilities and is willing to help me when I need it. I want to feel safe around him. I want to be myself with him. I also need him to know I am going back to school to get first my AA while I'm in San Francisco and then transfer to UCSD and get at least a Bachelor's.... He must also not lord over me! I am not some ornament he can show off to his friends, showing them his immense empathy towards me and how my shear will caused him to fall in love with me and not only, in his eyes, be my husband but also my protector. I am also not some damsel in distress, needing a knight in shining armor to rescue me from the jaws of a pissed off dragon!!! I know how to use a sword and won't hesitate using it either on the dragon or the meddling knight.
Our first dateGoing out to a nice restaurant than maybe, if it's summer, go to the beach or charter a boat to see if we can see any whales migrating thru the Bay. Or, we could charter a boat and head out to the seal rookery at the Farallones and maybe, if it's the right time of year, see some great white sharks and along with seals as they engage in the Danse Macabre, the Dance of Death. And if the goes well, we'll go out date goes again. But if the goes absolutely amasing, and we really hit it off, I think the skies the limit..... Happy flying!!!!